Denim. i know denim. I have been wearing it half my live pls!

Almost everyone who knows me knows that I am the poster child for being the Tees & jeans kinda person. or Shirt/blouse and jeans kinda gal.

Ok. Saying poster child is putting too much of myself in the beautiful ray of light because who am i kidding, when was I ever poster child material? ahh. in my dreams. not too bad there!

because my thighs are not in proportion to my hips and yada yada...i only learnt how to wear jeans and only that in my years of growing up from primary to secondary...so you can't exactly blame my fashion sense. I couldn't fit into other stuff well. lols...

Usually people find jeans suffocating....but for me the jeans I chose to wear are almost like second nature...of course i do have to admit there are those few which i would love to rip apart once i put them on.

But....denims have really been part of my life...it's been there for every other occasion...I would have inserted more example pics...but facebook only go that far and i have to sieve through waay too many! So let me show how i rock the fashionistic denim my way & how it blends right into my daily life and important points thereafter...

from when i go to USS to meet my favourite Kung Fu panda Po. 

i usually don't go so far back when looking at photos but since i was on this topic i found this pic very apt...

(an almost graduation day photo with my buddies then whom i've not met in a loong time)

doesn't it remind you of FRIENDS sitcom?

to visiting Ming's very important family day visit at his OCS

to celebrating a friend's birthday

and just trying to look cool. 

and feeling like a total rockstar. in tees. shades and denim looking o-so-cool. 

*ling is so going to kill me with this pic. but i think quite cute mah! :P

it makes picture perfect memories. 

well faded. *pun unintended.lols

you can see how important my denims are to me because i wore it on my first date. 

*ahems*

a girl can fantasize can't she?

In fact we all are rocking it out in denim! ( i think. wes are you?)

 all the way to meeting Mr President Obama. 

see my denims are awesome. 

they follow me throughout my lifetime. 

when it's cold it's probably the most practical wear pls. 

someone said something about being inflexible in it..?

See what i just did there? 

I made all your you go through my pictures of meee!

vicious. bhb. 

lols. 

So...

i feel the best denim style to suit the denim wearing me would be 

 it was down to this two...

*drum rolls*

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after much thinking i believe starlet straight would be my choice. 

Because I like clean cut cuts. 

Nothing too fancy, very to the point,  like me.
>.< 

hahaha. :p

With clean cuts I feel it can transcend time, denim is something which has already transcend time and all fashion to let people know it is here to stay. I would like to be known as someone like that, not always chasing newest trends and fashion because it is changing. I know i wouldn't be able to keep up, i want to keep something timeless.Something i can effortlessly throw on a plain top and still bring me places, make me feel comfortable. 

:)

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 i was looking through my pics and thought this would totally sell for a denim pic. 

*WIN*

if you would like us to be denim models, yes, we are more than willing. 

so hesitate no more cause we are rocking it out. 

;))

heh. 

i have no idea where my confidence comes from. 

from wearing a everlasting comfy pair of that denim.;P

see! we looked so good in our denim that when we asked momo opapa to help us take pic of us with the background he got tempted to shoot our denims instead. 

i rest my case. 

because that's the power of friendship.

i wrote this post on instagram a few days back but i though since it was such a long thought I would like to share it here too...

(it was meant to go out as a tweet. but 140 characters ain't enough for me to say it. bah. so it went onto instagram and now reproduced here...:))

Reading another article on this kid getting bullied so bad till she decided the world was not worth living for...:( 
And thinking...boy. I must really have been lucky all my life...:) I have heard of friends or friends of who have been bullied/teased/ostracised some part of their school lives especially sec and pri... From where I came from in my two schs either way everyone (popular.not) would have at least a friend to standup for them and just be..a friend...? 

Ppl laugh at ulu north but I guess we must be awesome cause I don't see it happening while studying here... What branded schools? Mine was just as awesome too!

And I must be really lucky or did something awesome in my pass live to have a bunch of buds I found frm pri, sec, poly & uni school to stick tgt with me till today. 

Xiexie I realised that it takes me quite awhile to be close to people...I'm shy like that. But if I'm close enough to irritate you (well in a friendly manner. Haa) then we must be quite close huh! Heh

*and i forgotten to add, if i ask you for things for help or anything, means we are close like that too, cause to learn how to ask for something is a big step for me. I hate why i am so shy like that. tsk.

I hope bullying-stops. Everyone find that friend of theirs:)

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That was my thought of the day then.

Family and friendship. 

this are the only two important things in my life currently. 

I can't even begin to imagine what i would do without them...

Coming home to an empty house without warmth, then i would rather stay out. 

going into a world without friendship feeling all alone, then i'd rather drift away. (speaking of which i love magnetic north's drift away song!the mv is quite apt for this topic!)

here you go! thought the mv was quite nicely done. by wfp of course!. :)

so thankfully, this two fit very nicely in my life. 

i lack maybe that one thing to make life complete but at least till date the other two have been fulfilling, and your friendships mean the world to me, my inner circle. 

not very big because i don't dream of being a social butterfly. 

 those who know will know cause i know. :)

(act yi ge poetic. lols)

and between the two, i treasure your friendship more i believe. (?)

maybe. 

there are so many things i dare to be rash about. (usually my practical self will speak first. oh but anyway...)

but with our friendship...

i hold it like a precious china ware.

 ...

so thankful for all the friendships i've made through the years...even the ones where now it seems that we have drifted apart. 

i really thank and appreciated you being part of my life then. :)

you were  (and still are) awesome guys. 

if you are reading this. go be someone's friend...especially that tortured soul you see....

you may just be the last glimmer of warmth...

we all hate to be judged. so if you can. don't. 

be a friend. 

you never know whose life you are bringing joy and new meaning into.

between friends - you just need to be there.

lilaLienations: dear readers/ people who really pop by to read my blog/ friends who read, if you all feel like commenting on any post do leave your messages in the comments link just below every post...i will read them! and am very happy to read them and reply!:) because my cbox is full of too many things, i sometimes don't get to see your msg because it gets lost in all the blabber....(if anyone ever do read my blog tt is. haa.) thank yous:D
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Have been going to the library alot recently to borrow books and also comics and I came across this book. Points below.

Ling have been wanting to read this book for some time. She once said she aspire to be a 懒人。 haha...i think i secretly aspire to be one but i most probably am a 烂懒人。hahaa...
this author is really cute, i initially guessed it was a taiwanese author, but i was wrong, the author is from Korea, so this must be a translated version.

The book is pretty funny with the little antics the author does, but really, i don't think the author is really as much of a 懒人 as the title says because ultimately he did manage to finish the book.
He was trying ways and means to escape from the editor and publishers when the date was nearing, but still got down to work and finished it on time....haha...

its pretty funny, if you see it in the library or around go have a read;)
i liked quite a few pages he? or she? drawn/wrote.
especially the one below i'm sharing.
*pardon the bad scanning, i was in a hurry to return the book, in a haste i did a bad scan...*
Taken from Dori 懒人的日记 page 149.
*click on the pick to see a clearer view*

for those who don't understand mandarin, the gist is like this:
*Dori : the guy with the red hoodie
Purple head guy: Dori's good friend, Yam. *

Yam is feeling the blues and Dori being the accommodating good friend tries to cheer him up;

(first line)when he asks Yam what he wants to eat ,　Yam wants lobster so Dori digs deep into his piggy bank...*tries* well, its lobster after all you know.
(second line) Dori asks Yam if he needs help carrying stuff, in helping so, the boxes fall all over him cause he doesn't have enough strength...-_-;;
(third line) To cheer Yam up, Dori dances a Rain's (kpop super star) dance...to the lack of enthusiasm from Yam.
and in the ending line.
Dori: all I need to do is just sit here with you?
Yam: Yes, Just accompany me and listen to my stories...that will do.

:))

sometimes it just takes very simple actions to make your loved one/friend feel better....
just be there.
listen and offer touch.
*eh! don't think dirty ah, you guys. tsk.*
i mean sometimes a hug, a hand to hold, a pat on the head and back, they can go a long long way in making a person in distress feel better.
and most importantly just be a friend,
don't judge.
:)

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Since i'm on the topic of Lib books..i must share this one too!
i really really loved this book!
it was so much better then i expected to it...
don't wanna returrnn!
haha..but of course i did.
i wonder how much it cost in the bookstore?
Someone buy this for my birthday!
muahaha.
if you see it in the lib and like reading intriguing thoughts and photos, go borrow this book.
its really good
:))))

early celebrations.

i really like this pic:)
*haha. i realised that in this pic because it was cropped out it looks as if i'm pointing a middle finger. lols.see the bottom for the original*

Yesh, this year birthday came really early...and to think i wasn't even prepared to celebrate my birthday, i was there for a totally different reason altogether but the reason i initiated the meet up went to the longkang...*no i shan't explain personal stuff here*haha...but they found a new reason for the meet up:)

and yesh, yayness! it was to meet up for my birthday! dang! if i knew it was going to change into a birthday meetup i would have dressed in something better and made sure my face lok more decent....alamakkk.-_-. hahahaha. but anyhooo. it was still a pretty awesome meetup:)) thanks to the girls for being so thoughtful. :D muacks!
We went to eat swensons because the prince's mummy felt like eating so...no pictures there, but we had lotsa laughs..:) so much so that i had such a full bladder and felt like it was going to burst anytime! woosh off to the toilet, scurrying like a little girl...haha...then next off we went to Wan Zhai for some dessert....the beancurd which we wanted to try initially ran out of stock...o man:( but instead we got the mango ice something...which was good to share too! There, the photo above was what was left of it...not that appetising anymore, but its awesome to share among friends for a chit chat...we laughed so much, and they said i and huan 'contaiminated' the ice...hahaha...o well. we're chinese ok, i really cannot stand the ang mo style of 'mix saliva' can die kinda mindset...totally not meaning to offense anyone, and i do understand its alot more hygenic, but it kinda loses the sense of 轻切感 ...i have no idea what is that in english...but yea...of course they were joking....we had so much fun laughing that we were all so full to finish it....
Yay! my new pressie! a bag they got for me....so ladylike! must learn how to use, but lucky they know me well, got sling provided! hahahahah...
I have tons of pics of me opening the bag, but damn, i look so horrible, how do people always look so nice candidly and i look like some pig...-_- ahahha...

i was figuring out how to use it...this way..that way...

last few photos of the day in the mrt station...because we were summoned back...
we know who lah. hahaa...

group pictureeee!
:)
thank you gals.
me love you!
many years and many many many*n more to come!
;)

its not everyday you get dedications...

presenting a good friend of mine. in fact my twinnie :)



She dedicated this song to 13 of us ( me included of course. hee:)), Virginia mummy (back in OCU, yesh, i really love this women too. who doesn't?;)) and her family. :)
Grenade by Bruno Mars, why this song? because on our road trip we heard this song a gazillion times and i'm not even exagerating. It seemed like the dj just decided he liked the song so much he was going to put it in like twice every hour or something in that sense. but thankfully, its a really good song and i'm liking Bruno Mars due to his previous hit. :)

it's not everyday you get dedications to yourself, so this is a real treat for me. thanks marmar:) awesomeness.

and to everyone else, she is MaressaZ on youtube. Sings well yo. Go subcribe to her page if you like her. :)) and yes, if you find her awfully familiar but can't tell why, it's cause she was on Singapore Idol before too. :))

yea. my mom refers to her as the singer. how cool is that. i wanna be refered to as something as cool as that too. i bet mine is like the blur one. hahahahahaha. lols. o well. :p

thank you for all the love. it was really awesome traveling with all of you all too. i wouldn't have done it any other way. arigatou neh.:)

sending loadsa more love back your way.

lala's gratitude journal for the day.

i'm getting restless. and here's my new fb pic. i haven't changed one in sometime.

I hate doing scripts using the same old info. boringgg. 5 different scripts using the same info. urgh. especially when i'm not confident i'm getting it all right. but i think the boredom is killing me just as much at the same time.

i wanted to write fml but then, nah. it really isn't anything bad to say so. i'm just being bored and restless. and there are so many more things in the world that really goes awry. so what am i doing giving negative energy over scripts.

Come. Positive. *rainbows and ponys!* :DDD

Yesh. i'm just ranting. but positively. because i just learn about the gratitude journal when i saw it on huaytyng's fb. Not too sure what it is yet, haven't checked it out. But i'm almost sure it is something about being grateful each and every day for the little little things you have in life.

and though yes, i'm bored with my script page for now and have little motivation and inspiration, i do have things i feel grateful for today. i think its so awesome i can say its for the whole week! :) and i really have to give credit to stupid computer website fb because i really enjoyed memories through photos today. :)

I have awesome flautist buddies mates!XD

i tell/remind myself this often. :))
though yes, sometimes we test each others patience, not on purpose, but friends do that. so we're pals. :D<3 lotsa it.




I have an awesome family :))))







I get to meet my favourite people in Sing.
My beloved cousie and aunt. :)
Just enjoying the photos make me happy and fuzzy. :)

I remember someone once told me, *some wise person?show?book?*if you can feel so angry with a person one day or two and still love the person at the end of the day. You gota share a special bond and relationship with the other party.
wise words indeed.
only with people you choose to put in your heart do you feel so yea.
though sometimes i feel less loved. and emo-ey i know. it could be just me. or a phase. whichever.
whatever.
not every relationship is without bumps but at the end of the day all can be well.
to the people who you know i love you. yesh.
you know who you all are
i love you all. mum. dad. you you and you.
:)

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and that's my not so random out of the blue gratitude journal for the day.
and it was because of the lovely photos which made me smile.
:))

i'm sure this is not a permanent installment on my blog because i'll be lazy and to write such heartfelt post, it comes once in a while...:) people don't really read and appreciate such stuff much anymore.

Happy 1st Birthday, Baby Joy

lilaLienations: Just a lil shout out to my teachers and friends who are teachers. Happy Teachers Day!:)) You deserve a special day just for yourself!:))) Yesh thats right. ;) Go enjoy it! Give youself a pat on the back if your a good teacher and then use the other hand to give urself another pat, that one's from me.:)
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Happy Birthday Joy.
May your life be as your name goesn joyful and spirited! With all the love in the world:)
I'm sure you will grow up to be Tiffany's precious jewel and to all around too.
Grow up slowly. :)

baby koala.
I realised i left out one N
Its Wenxin:)
You are loved by so many aunties jiejies :D
It is just lovely to always see your secondary school sisters. :)
and they still always look soo soo pretty :)))

Last weekend tiffany invited us through yee's coordination for baby joys first birthday. :) The last time i saw her was last year for baby joy's first month...? or was it...gosh i forgot. i'm getting old.:p haha..
And the rest of the story i'll try to just let the pictures talk to you...;)

Come come. come take photos with us joy. :)

This was when it was still early....
attempt fail. bb joy ranaway...hahaa...

after help of tiff's moma we managed to get a rather decent pic without joy running away.
heh:)

and then there must be just the ladies.
i like the feel of this one...the colour is very nice.
:)

bb joy n baby joy. :)

a smile for the camera women.
:)

when children smile at me.
i tell you. i melt. :)
i love photos of kids even though it THE hardest to take.

Here's rek trying to 'bao' joy.
But joy doesn't seem to enjoy just anybodies 'bao bao'
I was honoured enough *ahems* to 'baobao' her when we first arrived.
me. bie. xiao hui and qiu qi
*yay. victory* lols
but no pics of me hugging bb joy though, didnt rmb to take a pic...aww..
yay. bb joy doesn't discriminate against ugly faced people like me. for now. next time i see you bb i will look better! hahaha...

xiaohuijie and joy
pretty.

i love this scratch head and smile pose. uber uber cute!

I am so happy that i get to meet xiao hui and qiuqi:)

this was much earlier in the day when we were the only guest.

Yay! Here comes a series of bb joy @ lunch.

the super kaypo look. she was trying to look out of the kitchen to get a view of who had just arrived...

drools.:p

spell. C U T E LIL K O A L A!

Kids get entertained so easily.
they are contented and happy with a key.
what happen when we grew up.
*lets get in touch with our innocent more non pretentious easily happy childhood*:)

i really like this two pics.

Because it very unpretentiously casually show a grandma's love.
=))

melts.

and here comes the birthday pics.:) I have alot more on fb..if your on my fb list and would like to see the rest of the cute pics of bb joy its on my fb acct. ;)

momi and daughter so happy.

Wishing you all the joy in the world.
:)